I hear ya. I love mine too. Trouble is, so does my wife. Guess who wins...I carry a Kahr P380. Love this little firearm.
I've got the same (avatar pic). Great gun! I'm one of those oddballs that still prefers the older XD grip. That's why I went back to my XD40SC. Just can't seem to give up "old reliable"...XDM .40 Compact in a N82 holster... very comfortable...